“Be careful what you wish for because it may come true”, one of my least favorite proverbs. As far as a negative attitude goes its right up there with “No good deed goes unpunished.” It kinda takes the very joy out of wishing, doesn’t it? Taken another way, though, this proverb is actually excellent advice. Instead of a dour caution, see it as a challenge to dig deep into your heart, to what you really want. When we regret a wish we’ve been granted, it’s often because we unconsciously limited the dream before it left our heart. We down-sized it to increase our chances of getting something. We don’t allow ourselves to dream big. We’re afraid to ask for too much. Because we don’t really believe our wishes can come true, so to limit disappointment we “shelter” ourselves from wishing for what we really want.
Why worry about wishes not coming true? Because honestly, we all experience disappointment at one time or another. When we fail, does it hurt? Well, of course! But when you succeed, it’s one of the most valuable treasures you will receive in life. However, no one has a “Fairy Godmother” to make a wonderful life of fulfilled dreams happen, after all if wishes were horses, beggars would ride. We have to realize our own dreams and then work to make them happen. so in essense, within each of us is a fairy godmother put there to help us. If only we would take the first steps.
Take from? Yeah, it’s here. I can’t tell you how much I missed you all. Honestly I did. I feel like I’ve been gone forever. But thats an aside. The take from? Be careful what you wish for, because if you decide not to “settle” for the status quo in life, and happen to dream big enough and it comes true, you just may be the happiest person in the world. And the best part? You defined your own destiny and worked to make it happen. When you are self-reliant in creating your own happiness, define what will make you happy, and achieve this lofty goal, you’ve only got yourself to “blame.” I kinda like that. Being able to blame myself because I am happy. How about you?
Outfit Two: (red)
Dress: Desir, Euridice
Hairs: Vanity Hair, Valentina
Jewelry: Purple Moon, Cubics Taxi: