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Who is more to be pitied, a writer bound and gagged by policemen or one living in perfect freedom who has nothing more to say? ~ Kurt Vonnegut 15308247288_2b3f2535e4_o I’m sure some of you have noticed, I rarely write any more. I’d like to say I’ve nothing to say, but it’s not the case to be honest.  In recent months, a couple of times I had taken the time to think out and write an opinion on a topic and for some reason, even though I always end these pieces with “and take it for what it’s worth to you, I know probably not a lot” a particular reader seemed to take offense. So much so, she twice contacted me to personally give me her opinion and beleaguered why I was wrong, which seriously is fine, I love to hear others opinions, but these conversations leaned towards combative impasses. Being a non-combative sort, I can honestly say I’ve never been in a physical fight in my life, and rarely a worded one, I tend to timidly shy away from unwanted attention and have chosen to do so here for a bit.  So if you are here for the “witty repertoire” *cough* please be patient with me, the Lil Cao is momentarily on hiatus, if you are here to see fashion, I bet you are glad I chose to shut up! 😉 15488913392_e02f602bcb_o In both cases, I hope you are here because you like to visit me. I know I like to have visitors, even if its the peek and run type. I hope you won’t peek and run though, I would love to chat a bit. It get’s awfully lonely when I just set here with words rattling around emptily in my ‘ead. Whichever you choose, I sure hope you have a fun and creative weekend planned! May love and laughter light your days, and warm your heart and home. May good and faithful friends be yours, wherever you may roam. May peace and plenty bless your world with joy that long endures. May all life’s passing seasons bring the best to you and yours! Top Picture: Hair: Tableau Vivant, Winnie  **Collabor88** Buns: Tableau Vivant, Mimi  **Collabor88** Jewelry: Glam Affair, Lux  **Collabor88** Skin: October’s 4Seasons, Angelina Outfit Two Hair: Dura-Girl*57  **NEW** Jacket: Ison, Over-sized Wool Coat Dress: Ison, Silk Slip Dress  **Collabor** Boots: [Gos], Mesh Wellingtons Umbrella/Pose: {What Next} Earwax:

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  1. I read you faithfully each day, listen to your ear worm and enjoy each word and note. Thank you for sharing your life, your likes and dislikes and your fearlessness and amazing talent of creativity in fashion. I’m one of your usual “hit and runs”, but faithful. Keep being you. ~Danni

  2. your words and photos are one of the moments in my day i really enjoy often your opinions have been quite good for my soul and other times making me bring thought in a new direction .. i really hope you continue to share your opinions…we all see the same things so differently but isn’t that one of the many things that make life amazing and beautiful….

    1. that’s is exactly right Owl, and I am very much aware I don’t know everything, well really don’t know much of anything in all honesty. But I like to share my thoughts and I always have the hope that others will share their thoughts, even disagreeing ones, in the comments because we can always learn so much from each other. You are one of the smartest wisest people (and owl) I know and I love it when you check my manners 😀 Have a gorgeous weekend darling one! :**

  3. Why do the harsh opinions of a discontent minority seem to outweigh the opinions of a happy majority? I am guessing there are far more people that come to anchailinalainn.com that enjoy the content, than those that object to it. I think I must be growing wary of seeing the toxic effect of one unhappy person and the negative ripple effect it can create for so many. This is why I just could not let this one pass. Cao, please do not let this one individual effect what you want for yourself. It is always wise to listen to critique and learn and grow from it, but it is also important to know when the critique is productive and when it can be discounted as destructive.
    I think I speak for a large majority of the people who visit your page when I say that you should remain true to yourself. Just be you. The lil positive, big hearted, and interesting Cao that we all continue to come back to and enjoy the great styling and thoughtful content day after day. The person who commented also has a choice; they can comment, be heard, and move on, or simply choose not to read your blog if they find it so objectionable. They have control of where they go and what they read. It’s as simple as that. For the rest of us that enjoy your take on things, don’t stop being you and please continue to share yourself with us. We would miss anything less.

    1. omgosh, you made me cry. 🙂 thank you so much and you are so right! Thank you thank you Eleanor, you just made me grow up. I hope you are blessed ten-fold with the happiness you just gave me! :))

  4. It made me sad to think that you would let one, very bad person, make you rethink what you say. This is how they stop our creative original thinking. Never let the dark cloud of one poor soul stop you! We love what you say and look forward to how you say it. ((Hugs))

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