The.Playing.Ground.and.the.Big.Picture.

The.Playing.Ground.and.the.Big.Picture. FFL- *LpD* Steam Cloud Makeup and Earrings.

I promised myself I wouldn’t do it, no Lil Cao thinking blogs during this Fashion for Life pre-opening week. Honestly I did try. I held it since Friday. But then there is always a catalyst. And I am, above all things, a watcher and thinker. I have a friend who is ill with Parkinsons Disease and suffers their days with debilitating pain, involuntary shaking and once a week excruciating physical therapy. In the midst of an argument the spouse of the friend complained everything that was wrong with the marriage was due to my friends disease, as if having the disease were a choice.

The.Playing.Ground.and.the.Big.Picture.1st box I opened was menswear…. But, I loved it! (worn without shirt and tie) FFL- Hairs: Dura, FFL1. Suit: Innuendo Italian, Neth. Purse: *CoCo*, Lip clutch

I held it in, well until yesterday that is. The office I work in is along the waterfront. The waterfront is a vibrant area with a marina, a few restaurants and a huge playground where families gather to let their children play. After work while driving along the waterfront my travels were mired and crawling due to policemen searching in the water for a fisherman who was killed while boating. I was very angry when I noticed cars stopping in the road to watch the process, it’s a road, quit watching and just drive! Of course, this didn’t happen, while stopped so the idiot in front of me could watch, I looked at the crowd gathered along the jogging path watching the scene unfold. People were there with their children, young children, all under five years old, looking to see a dead body. I was simply appalled! Is this something a child should see? But then, while sitting there a moment longer, it hit me. When it comes to the big picture, I am as obtuse as my friends spouse, the spectators, and the idiot driver. In my small ego-centrical way, in my worry of getting from work to home so I could walk my Jack Russell Terrior…ist, the big picture was hidden from view. Someone had lost a son, brother, father, spouse, friend, lover, or all of the above.

The.Playing.Ground.and.the.Big.Picture.FFL- Dress: *LpD*, Steam Cloud dress. POSES: *PosESioN* poses, Chic.

Take from? Yep, even this week. Cancer, like death, touches each and every one of us at some point. Whether in our own family, ourselves, a neighbor, loved one, or a friend. Are you the person who will help, or the person who will sit in your car and think about how your life has been inconvenienced by this victim? Me? I choose not to stand around and watch, I want to make a difference. Like this song, one of my favorite of all time, like The Fray, I choose to try to learn “How to Save a Life”. March 9th 2013, please join us at Fashion For Life in Second Life, it’s not just about Fashion. Together, we will make a difference. Remember 100% of the proceeds from sales goes directly to the American Cancer Society. SLURL’s are under the Fashion for Life Slurl’s page on the left of this blog. Feel free to use them through out the week of the 9th March.

Fashion for Life Begins March 9th 2013

Fashion for Life Begins March 9th 2013
Outfit:
Hat: *SoliDea FoliEs*, Tiffany
Dress: *SoliDea FoliEs*, Tiffany
Hair: Boon, BNG331

It is so close to the time, one week. Fashion for Life isn’t just about Fashion. I look forward to it every year, this is my third in Second Life and I hope you will lend a hand and help too. All you have to do is purchase one item, every purchase helps. The wonderful part of SL’s Fashion for Life event is you don’t just donate, you receive a product for your donation, something you would possibly wish to buy anyway. All the designers items are donated to the charity at 100%. One person can make a difference. Don’t think cancer is some vague disease that will never effect you. Cancer is the second leading cause of death in the United States alone. I personally lost my best friend/sister in law to leukemia at the age of 36 and watching the disease progress is devastating. There are many types of cancer, but all cancers start with a single abnormal cell. Abnormal cells multiply quickly. They spread to other parts of the body, invading healthy body tissue and organs, yet almost half of all cancer deaths can be prevented with early detection and treatment.

Fashion for Life Begins March 9th 2013
Outfit:
Dress: *SoliDea FoliEs* Isabella (Gacha item)
Hair: Exile, American Woman

Relay For Life is the signature fundraising event of the American Cancer Society. The Relay For Life of Second Life is the largest, most successful fundraising event in our virtual world, raising more than $5.4 million in 2012. From noon March 9th 2013 to noon March 17th 2013, the biggest, boldest and most fabulous fashion event of the year will take place, helping to raise funds and awareness on behalf of the ‘American Cancer Society.’ All SLURLS under Fashion for Life SLURLS. Event will not be open until March 9th, 2013.

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Any.Way.The.Wind.Blows.

Sadistic Hacker

As with all great fund raisers, the only thing missing is the great designers willing to selflessly give to this wonderful cause. This is an incredible tool to get your brand out there and known, and we all know brand identity is one of the hardest intangibles to create in Second Life, So don’t miss this chance! I help with a lot of Second Life charities, but the one that always means the most to me for obvious reasons is Relay for Life. Please don’t miss this event, created for such a noble cause. 100% of the proceeds of the SL event are for Relay for Life and are given to the American Cancer Society. Anyone who knows me knows my life has been touched more than once by the scourge of cancer. This is such a dreaded disease, it silently infiltrates families and friendships, doesn’t care whether its victim is an adult or child, nor does it care the color of one’s skin. Let’s work together to see this disease eradicated in our life time.

Any Way the Wind Blows

RELAY FOR LIFE’S FASHION FAIR IS HERE!

With a fresh New Year started, so begins the 2013 Relay For Life season. Over the years, the Fashion community of Second Life has worked diligently to raise funds for the American Cancer Society and this year, with your help, we plan to take the world by storm.

This year’s inspiration for Fashion For Life is Seven Wonders of the Ancient World. There are 7 themed SIMs, as well as 2 event SIMs:

Great Pyramid of Giza
Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Statue of Zeus at Olympia
Temple of Artemis at Ephesus
Mausoleum at Halicarnassus
Colossus of Rhodes
Lighthouse of Alexandria

Entry fee for a Fashion For Life store is $5,000L for everyone. All payments must only be made to FASHION4LIFE2013 Resident. Once entry fee is paid, please copy/paste the transaction to Anne Daumig who will send you the invite to the FASHION4LIFE Group.

We are also looking for SIM sponsors. Please contact Frolic Mills if you would like to be the major sponsor of any of the 9 sims. The name of the sim will be your choice: Perhaps your business, or your name, or you may dedicate it to anyone you’d like!

Fashion For Life runs from noon March 9th, 2013 to noon March 17th, 2013.

Designers are asked to contribute 3 new and EXCLUSIVE items to be sold only at Fashion For Life with 100% of sales going to Relay For Life. The rest of the sales from any other vendor go completely to you.

Also, we would like to do Limited Editions, Gachas and raffles this year. One item will be a Limited Edition with only 100 copies available to the public. We suggest the Limited Edition item priced high and highly desired. Gachas items should be priced between 25L and 150L.

Raffle items may be an outfit, fatpack, Gift Cards or a service. All raffle items must be No Copy/Trans and sent ONLY to FASHION4LIFE2013 Resident.

There are more events planned for this year’s FFL, but we don’t want to spoil the surprise yet!

Let’s make this year’s FASHION FOR LIFE the biggest and most exciting one ever.

We need your help, our help is yours.

FASHION FOR LIFE
Lead Committee

Outfit:
Mini: Gizza, Rich and Famous
Hairs: Sadistic Hacker, Nagi
Pumps: HMAEM (Hate Me And Eat Me), Piqui Pumps
Clutch: Swallow, Lion Clutch in Night Colors
Earrings: Mandala, Noodle
Watch: Mandala, Sitennoah
Glasses: *Boom*, Begas

Lonely.Hearts.Club.

Lonely.Hearts.Club.

I know you all know me and know what a recluse and solitary person I am. I cant help it, I’ve always been a quiet reflective person. But every year, about this time of year, I get so very lonely. I put on a mask and pretend it doesn’t effect me, but it still does, 7 years later. I’ve made a new blog friend and I think he has made me introspective and I want try to share more of me. It was this month that I lost one of the dearest most loved people I know, my best friend, my brothers wife. She was diagnosed, at the age of 37 with leukemia. She lived another nine months. She was survived by a husband, two children and a best friend, her sister in law.

Did you know, Relay For Life is the highest fundraising event the citizens of Second Life participate in? When I was inworld a moment ago, my friend Emanuelle Courtois stopped me in passing and spoke of her role in this years Relay for Life project. Emanuelle is an amazing videographer and her donation to the event will be a film of second life residents who have beat the awful ravages of cancer. She would like real life cancer surviving heros (you are all heros to me) to speak in voice through their avatar about what they have been through, what they have learned about themselves and share it with others.The format would be as if you are speaking to yourself at the age of sixteen, telling yourself what is to come, how to prepare or avoid. However, this is just a guideline. This is YOUR forum to speak in. If you would like the information on the film, or would like to share it with a person you think willing to share, please contact Emanuelle Courtois, or myself by January 20th, 2013 and we will see that you receive the notecard with information.

I help with a lot of Second Life charities, but the one that always means the most to me for obvious reasons is Relay for Life. Please don’t miss this event, created for such a noble cause. 100% of the proceeds of the SL event are for Relay for Life and are given to the American Cancer Society. Anyone who knows me knows my life has been touched more than once by the scourge of cancer. This is such a dreaded disease, it silently infiltrates families and friendships, doesn’t care whether its victim is an adult or child, nor does it care the color of one’s skin. Let’s work together to see this disease eradicated in our life time.

Outfit:
Hair: Boon, LCA518
Leotard: H.M.A.E.M. (Hate Me and Eat Me) La regina dei ghiacci Black
Shoulders: Glam Affair, Spike Shoulder pads *L’accessoires*
Shoos: LD Major, What a Croc